“I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little.” Philippians 4:12
The fun thing about verses the people often memorize, like Philippians 4:13, is that we often forget about the verses surrounding it.
I first became an adult in Michigan. I had my first full-time job, I paid bills and taxes, and considered myself mostly independent. I had enough money to cover everything I needed and most of what I wanted. I was living with plenty but somehow not satisfied.
Then I moved to Oklahoma and felt like I was living on nothing. I relied on the kindness of family and friends until I got a job that seems to only ever cover rent and bills with very little wiggle room.
Then I went to Africa and met people who were actually living on nothing. My friends, brothers and sisters in Christ, so full of joy with mostly empty bellies, showed me the tiniest hint of living on nothing. They rely on God for EVERYTHING. I mean, in America, I say I rely on God for everything but I pretty much know that if I’m hungry, there are some green beans in the cupboard and probably some frozen chicken breasts in the freezer so I’m covered for dinner. I don’t need to ask God where my next meal is coming from because He’s already provided it. God has my every need anticipated to the point that I feel like I’m doing it myself sometimes.
But my African brothers and sisters know what it is to ask God for dinner. They know that it is God and only Him who answers their prayers and meets their every need. Nothing happens except by the grace of God. Every breath comes from Heaven and the joy they experience from that kind of connection with God is enviable.
After the smallest taste, I came back to my life of plenty and I won’t lie, I had a hard time adjusting. I actually didn’t want to adjust. I still don’t like it. I don’t want to feel comfortable with all my stuff. I don’t want to feel good about all the food sitting in my kitchen that has a chance to expire before I get around to eating it.
I have read the verse I opened this post with numerous times, always in the context of gratitude and contentment with my stuff and occasionally, the lack of it. Something I hadn’t noticed before is how Paul refers to learning to live with plenty and with little. It’s a secret. Just one. There is one secret to learn. There’s not a different trick for living with plenty than for living with little.
The secret is in the oft quoted verse 13. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. The focus is not on the stuff. The focus is on Christ. The secret to being content with little, even knowing some people have plenty is to focus on Christ. The secret to being content with having plenty, even knowing some people have little is to focus on Christ.
There’s a theory in psychology called “Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.” It suggests that people need to have base needs met, like food and breathing, before they can move to the next level of concern, like personal safety and health. Once those needs are satisfied, they can concern themselves with friendship and love, then self-esteem and respect. At the top of the pyramid is morality and creativity.
This theory is utter foolishness. It suggests an elemental “otherness” about people in poverty that is simply not true; that people in poverty are not concerned with love or respect or morality. I know for a fact and have seen first hand people who do not have food or personal safety but love more passionately than anyone else. Then consider celebrities who obviously have food, safety, love, and respect but lack any sense of morality.
The problem with thinking this way puts way too much focus on the stuff. When I went to Africa, all I saw at first was their lack of stuff. Fortunately, their astounding love overwhelmed me and blessed me beyond measure. When I came home, I had the mistaken idea that the only way to love like that and to feel God dripping from every moment like that, was to not have stuff like them.
It’s a materialistic idea on which we base almost all advertisements. If you have the right stuff, your life will be the way you want it. Only this time, reversed. I figured lacking the right stuff would make my life the way I wanted it. Both ideas are wrong.
Don’t get me wrong, I definitely need less stuff. I definitely need to not buy any more food until I use the food I have. I definitely don’t need to buy any more clothes or shoes. But the stuff isn’t the problem or the solution.
God is. The reason their lives were so rich and full wasn’t because their lack of stuff caused them to focus on Christ. They focused on Christ and he provided for their needs. They relied on Christ for their strength. That’s the secret. I don’t need to have less stuff or more stuff or any stuff. I just need Christ. Realizing that as my central need, and everything else as blessings, is the secret to contentment.
Relying on Christ for strength and happiness and wholeness is all I need. My stuff, or occasional lack there of, only clouds my vision because it causes me to focus on the blessings instead of the God who richly blesses.